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Sunday, May 8, 2011

The story of a religious man who was advised by a woman

Introduction
This is one story of the Children of Israel who delivered by a man who converted to Islam among them. This story is about a scholar Children of Israel that his wife died. He decided to be alone because her grief is very deep. Then there is a woman who is desperate to see him. This woman makes the parable that illustrates the situation without him knowing it. So these scholars could take advantage of the parables that made the woman. He threw back his grief and mingle with people.
Hadith Text
Malik in the Muwattha 'narrated from Yahya ibn Said and Al-Qasim ibn Muhammad that he said, "My wife's death, then Muhammad ibn Ka'b al-qurazhi came to mourned. Mohammed said," Among the Children of Israel have a faqih, wise, expert worship and expert judgment. He married. He admires and loves his wife. When his wife died, he was very sad and really regretted it, until he was alone at home, shut down, and avoid people. No one who met him.
There was a woman who heard it. She came to him and said, 'I need him there. I would like to request a fatwa, can not be represented. " People go and this woman waiting at the door. This woman said, 'I must meet her. "
Someone told the man learned that, 'There's a woman at the door who want to ask fatwamu. She said that she only wanted to talk to you. " People have been disbanded while he remained at the door. The Alim it was said, 'Tell him to go. " The woman came in and said, 'I came to ask drew in a case. " The Alim is asked, 'What's that? "
This woman said, 'I borrowed from my neighbor's jewelry. I wear it and lend it some time, then they asked me to return it. Do I have to mengembalikankannya? " The man replied, 'Yes, by God. " She said, 'Jewellery has been to me for some time. " The man replied, 'It is more obligatory upon you to mengembalikankannya on them when they lend it some time. " She said, 'Hopefully Allah love you. Do you regret what God has lent to you and then he took it from you while He was more right than you are? " These pious men came out of his mistake and saying this woman is very useful to him. "Takhrij Hadith"
This hadith narrated by Malik in his Muwattha', Jami'ul Usul, Chapter expects reward from catastrophe, pp. 163 no. 43.
Shaykh Al-Arnauth Shu'aib comment this tradition in Usul Jami'ul (6 / 339), "Sanad to Muhammad ibn Ka'b Al-Qurazhi is authentic."Explanation of Hadith
Muhammad ibn Ka'b al-Qurazhi visited Al-Qasim ibn Muhammad to comfort him after his wife died. So Muhammad tells the story of a man of worship and religious scholars from the Children of Israel who left death by his wife, the wife who was much admired and loved. The man was very sad. I was so sad, she was lonely, alienating himself from the people, and do not want to be seen by anyone.
There came a woman who wanted to meet him to ask his judgtment. This woman was waiting at the door. He declined to say the problem is. He insisted to speak directly. When she met, she asked about a people who loaned him a lot and good jewelry. He wear it and lend it. Then the owner asked her, then whether he shall return it?
The man was surprised by the question the answer is very simple. He replied, "It must be restored."
Yet this woman was making a metaphor borrowed jewelry, with his wife. Wife at his side as a loan and all that are merely the deposit and loan, property, family and children. God would take back his deposit. When a woman is directing the views of men to the similarities between the situation with the state of jewelery loan, then he woke up and corrected his mistake.
Lessons and Benefit-Benefit Hadith
1. A cleric can be negligent of what they know and understand, as the jurisprudence of this pious duty negligent to be patient at the time of the decrease calamity that known by all people. And that is just what God take what He Leave to us.
2. Those clever longer sensible to indicate errors and omissions of others, as is done by this woman of such pious people.
3. Knowledge and understanding is not the monopoly of men only. But it held together. This woman has been aware of pious men.
4. There is no hindrance for women when trying to teach and spread the goodness to mankind, as long as he can keep themselves from harm and fall into haraam.
5. The importance of a parable. Parable eliminate doubtful, eliminate difficulties, straighten those who strayed, and provide advice to those who go astray.
6. Entertaining people with news of those who passed the same with the state of people who were given advice.
Source: adapted from DR. Umar Sulaiman Abdullah Al-Asyqar, Saheeh Qashashin Nabawi, or Ensklopedia Saheeh Story of All Time trans. Izzudin Karimi, Lc. (Reader Yassir, 2008), pp. 366-369

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